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You could say that Clifford Verity meant well. He moved in with his aging mother, Ruth, took her to doctors’ appointments, even brought home fresh fish for dinner. He had worked previously as a certified nursing assistant caring for elderly in a nursing facility, and felt he could grant her wish not to be moved into a nursing home, but to age and die gracefully at home.

Then her health began to spiral downward, confining her to bed and leaving her helpless. Neighbors no longer saw her and trusted Clifford was handling her needs.

When Ruth died, medics came to their house and were horrified. The deceased woman had wasted away to a mere 79 pounds. Her frail body lay atop a soiled mattress. Excrement was smeared on the carpet below. A medical examiner called it the worst case of neglect she had ever seen, according to the Fort Myers, Fla., News-Press.

The sad truth, the paper later reported, is that abuse and neglect of the elderly is often hard to detect – whether it is in someone’s home or at a nursing facility. Elderly often refuse help or are too incapacitated to seek help outside the abusive environment.

Thus, it is difficult to know how many of the elderly population are abused, neglected or exploited, according to National Center on Elder Abuse (NCEA), an organization directed by the U.S. Administration on Aging that helps national, state and local partners in the field be fully prepared to ensure that older Americans will live with dignity, integrity, independence and without abuse.

Citing the National Elder Abuse Incidence Study, NCEA reports that only 16 percent of abusive situations are referred for help, leaving 84 percent hidden. While some studies estimate that between 3 percent and 5 percent of the elderly population have been abused, the Senate Special Committee on Aging estimates that there may be as many as 5 million victims every year.

Clifford now sits in prison. He wrote a letter to his neighbors arguing that what happened to him – how he lost control of the care of his mother – could happen to anyone, according to the News-Press story. Neighbors still wonder why he didn’t get help.

Don’t be blind to elder abuse and neglect. Know the signs of elder abuse.

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