Beasley, Allen, Crow, Methvin, Portis & Miles, P.C.

It’s hard enough to leave a family member in a nursing home. You want them surrounded by memorabilia from their past that conjures up happy memories. But longtime heirlooms can sometimes be so attractive to others that they end up missing.

WKTV News Channel 2 featured a story of an 89-year-old resident of Bethany Gardens Skilled Living Facility in Rome, N.Y. The elderly woman wore two rings on her fingers – a gold-and-diamond engagement ring given to her in 1940 by her husband, and a family ring made of various gemstones. The rings hung loose on her frail fingers, and when Certified Nurse Aide (CNA) Amanda Thaler offered to take the rings and have them fitted for her, the elderly women obliged. But Thaler never returned the rings, probably thinking the nursing home resident would forget. But she didn’t. She asked Thaler about the rings a half hour later and then later that day in the dining room. Finally, Thaler returned the family ring but kept the engagement ring.

When questioned about the engagement ring, Thaler suddenly claimed to feel ill, and caught a ride with her boyfriend, Sheldon Stoddard, who was a dietary technician at the nursing home. The two then drove to a pawn shop and sold the heirloom ring for a mere $15.

Bethany Gardens, rightly so, fired the couple over the incident, and the ring was recovered. It is currently being held by Rome Police as evidence. Attorney General Andrew Cuomo said his office will take significant steps to protect New York’s seniors from those who abuse or steal money or personal possessions from seniors. “These employees are accused of stealing a personal heirloom with priceless sentimental value from a vulnerable nursing home resident for whom they were supposed to be caring,” he was quoted by the station.

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